Published July 24, 2025
Must-Haves vs. Nice-to-Haves: How to Prioritize Your Home Search

When you’re house hunting, it’s easy to get overwhelmed by all the options. Do you prioritize a big backyard or a chef’s kitchen? A quiet cul-de-sac or walkability?
The key to a smooth search is knowing your must-haves versus your nice-to-haves.
What Are Must-Haves?
These are non-negotiables—things you need for your lifestyle to work. Common examples include:
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A specific number of bedrooms or bathrooms
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One-story layout for mobility
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Zoned for a specific school
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Within a set commute distance
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Price within budget
What Are Nice-to-Haves?
These are features you’d like to have, but could live without or add later. For example:
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Pool or hot tub
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Walk-in closets
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Quartz countertops
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Designer light fixtures
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Mature trees
How to Prioritize:
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Start with Your Lifestyle. Think about how you live now and what needs are non-negotiable.
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Be Realistic About Your Budget. Must-haves should fit within your price range.
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Use a Checklist. I give my clients a personalized checklist to sort through their wants and needs—it helps reduce decision fatigue and avoid buyer’s remorse.
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Leave Room for Flexibility. No house is 100% perfect. Focus on the bones of the home and the location—cosmetic upgrades can come later.
Bottom Line:
The clearer you are on your priorities, the smoother your search will be. Let’s build your must-have list together!